Marriage is one of the best things
that can happen in a woman’s life. Most women feel bad or ashamed seeing their
fellow women getting married but they are not, be it their classmates,
childhood friends, church member or even colleagues at work. They may say, “I’m
I not beautiful enough for a man to approach me?” You are, but there are few
things to be done.
Let’s see those things that will
surely make you a wife material for a good man.
BE A COMMITTED CHRISTIAN
God is a merciful father, he is a
living father, he does not allow his children to cry and weep over a particular
problem for too long. No good, responsible and God fearing man will love to
marry a woman that is not a committed Christian. A man believes when he is out
there hustling, he has a wife back there that is interceding for him and the
family. A man wants to marry a woman that will always remind him of praying
before they go to bed and same thing at dawn before they jump out of the bed.
If you will accept with me, most men
feel dillydally and shillyshally in attending church programs, so now it is a
woman’s duty as a help mate to advice and talk your man in being serious in
church programs, and mind you, manner of approach must be welcoming to make the
man move. That is the kind of woman men are looking for as a wife. A man will
love to marry a woman that will be representing the family in fasting and
prayers in church especially when the man has an important business to attend
to. Remember women first saw Jesus at the tomb, so they are so emotional in
prayers.
No man will want to walk into fire.
As a woman that wants to get married, you need to be closer to God always
because God will always use you as a help mate in the man’s life and the pillar
to hold the home strong and firm.
JOIN THE CHOIR
Oh my! my! I love music, men love music. Most men
find it very romantic hearing their wives sing at home. When you sing for God
in the choir it means a lot, God cannot forget that, no one works for God and go
empty handed, he must reward you with your immediate needs. In some churches,
women lead in praise and worship and even offering session, when they are out there singing with their
beautiful voices that God gave to them, check out the way bachelors will be
looking at them, if u will notice, the percentage of admiration for the lady
maybe even up to 199%, imagine. Well, after the service, a man may walk up to
the lady and begin a conversation you never can tell what will happen next.
Also, when singing in church, sing
with passion and with style, you never know who is watching you, remember,
anyone who works for God in his house cannot go home empty handed. Keep on
singing to God, and he will send your Mr right to you.
BE IN A
RELATIONSHIP
In yesterday’s world, people got
married like that without being in a relationship. Things have really changed
now, in today’s world, people desire to know their partners very well. It is
very important to be in a relationship, because this relationship will
determine whether or not you will get married to your partner. Men are very
wise, they observe everything you do, during the relationship, lots of
temptations will occur in other to separate both of you. You will need to know his
needs and wants as an intending wife, you start learning on how you will be
when both of you are married. During this relationship period, let him know you
can cook very well. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Do not
forget that.
PRAY ABOUT IT
With prayers we can move mountains in
the name of the Lord , we can move mountains. You must always talk to God about
your man. Most women receive revelation about their men, and truly it comes to
pass. During your relationship you must pray, do not fan yourself and say “ oh yes! I have finally gotten a man, I am
now in a relationship and soon we will get married”. No doubt you may get
married, but have you forgotten that the Bible say we should be aware of the
devices of the devil, your friend may be jealous of you, seeing you in a serious
relationship that is leading to marriage. They may want to destroy your
relationship and take your place. Always pray about your relationship, for God
to strengthen your relationship and metamorphose it to marriage. Pray about it
always, remember prayer is the key, prayer is the start and finishing, prayer
is the master’s key, it can open and also lock. It will open a way for you to
succeed in your relationship.
BE FAITHFUL
To show and to have true and constant
support and loyalty is needed a lot in a relationship to keep it moving. Being
faithful may be hard, but if you are, your man will be crazy for you and he
will be glad to work you down the aisle. What will you gain being an unfaithful
woman? You want a man to put a ring on your finger, but you are busy jumping
from one man to another, no man will marry you, if you are not faithful in your
relationship. Remember, as you lay your bed, so you will lay on it. Be faithful
in your relationship, and God will be faithful to you.
BE A GOOD MANAGER
We all know who a manager is, someone
who is in charge. As a wife material, you must learn in other to know how to be
in charge, how to manage crisis in the family, how to manage the kitchen, how
to manage your man’s stomach and how to manage resources.
LOVE HIS PEOPLE
A man is always happy when he sees
his woman get along with his family members very well. You must love his
people, no matter the behavior of his people just love them. If you don’t love
his people and the man’s parents happen to know about the disdain, they may not
approve their son to marry you, so you must love your man’s people and take
them like your very own. By doing so, they will love you also and accept you
into the family.
LOVE HIM AND RESPECT HIM
No man will want to marry a woman
that does not love him. When there is love, there is respect. What makes men
crazy is seeing their women respect them and knowing that their women love
them. Love and respect your man because if you don’t he may not love to marry
you. The man is the head of the family as God is the overall head. Now women
put your selves into the men’s shoes, you have a lady you want to get married
to, but she does not respect you, she talks to you any how, when you make a
sentence, she will make a million sentences, tell me how would you feel? That
is why some women stay single. The main thing is to love, because you love him,
you will respect him, because love teaches, love respects, love calms, God is
love.
With these few points, I believe you
will pick something that will help you. Let’s keep the fire burning.
We are always here for your
comments.
